Rita Giordano, Philadelphia Inquirer
Nicholas Lotter heard her whole life.
Open, even charming, she never felt comfortable in groups or chatted a little. Heavy worker who finds difficult times or keeps working hard. Was he wearing a wardrobe and his envelope-tracking knowledge of the star's track? He then asked the people, "Be good!".
But a few years ago, his son, Matthew, at age six, did not respond to the developmental stages of development despite early intervention, to bring it to a specialist. The doctor watched some of the autism's behavior and moved on to his eyes and walked with his finger.
"I said it's not an autistic behavior because I do it," said the doctor. "He said:" Have you ever been tested? "He asked.
Last year, at the age of 42, Lowther was tested. Educational and methodological autism, which was told.
"It was a discount," says Launter. "I did not like it," he replied. Now, most of my life has its meaning. "
For women and girls living in the autism spectrum, diagnosis is too late. Children with autism scarcity disorders – the fastest-growing human development in the country, according to experts, may be overlooked by many women, whose symptoms are not accepted or made worse than the number of girls aged 4-1.
"If the girls are diagnosed early, they will lose the most expensive treatment," says D. L. Robins, A. J Drexel's Early Detection and Intervention Research Program of Autism Institute. Studies have shown that children who are treated from 2 to 3 years are the best.
But for many women the diagnosis is not good for adults. In decades, social exclusion, depression, anxieties and anxieties have meant.
"We can not do a great job of identifying all women," said Thomas Fraser, chief research fellow at Autism Speaks. "We have to identify women, especially cognitive talents, and then find out what differences can be made in their research. The problem is that it is now difficult to study because "subjects are so limited".
Women's autism is often different. Recent studies have suggested that autistic men and women may have genetic differences, even brain dysfunction. Some studies have shown that women's autistic brain makeup is similar to neuropathic men's brain than to autistic men or neuropathic women.
The AAC describes many of the features, but also describes social and communicative difficulties, relapse behavior, and sometimes sensory sensitivity. Many professionals – doctors, teachers, consultants – are looking for autism instead of boys. But female sprites look simple. They behave inconsistently, as their behavior can be in line with social norms – it is not entirely acceptable, but sufficient to eliminate the definition.
They may seem shy. Or they can talk, even communicate, but they are complicated by the neurotic social world. Direct view may be wrong with hostility.
Some say that they can not be autistic, because they love writing and language, not science or mathematics – a long stereotype. Many autistic women use functional clothing or limited colors; One of Lowther's friends is a joke about the "neutral" tone of the prison secretary. But some admit that they have a luxurious method of study that may be similar to those with minimal autism.
Girls may have a repetitive, narrow interest in autism, but their children may be much less likely than neuropathic girls. Why is it so surprising that children with autism may be wondering about a little girl who has a cartoon character or bus schedule and may even wake up, but with plush sleeping beds? A little girl never plays with animal animals.
The gift of being different
However, these girls can become successful women who can see their differences as gifts. Temple Grandin is an international expert on animal behavior and autism protection. According to the poet Emily Dickerson, many people were in the autism spectrum.
"They are incredibly creative people who are just as brilliant as the renaissance people," said Denmark, Executive Director of Autism Asperger Network, a national information and propaganda group. On the other hand, anxieties can be exacerbated, especially when they are not good. People see an oral, vigorous woman, and hope for that person is high.
Like many bright young people, Nomi Kaim was glad to be ready to go to college in Brin Maur College in 2003. The campus has long passed since childhood in New England, called it "social slow" and has suffered from depression.
But Brother Moor lasted for several years. Work was not that difficult, but it was too much to handle. His neighbors hated him. Everywhere there was a lot of noise. His depression was hot. When he came home, he was hospitalized several times in the future.
However, her problem ended when she was 21 years old. A diagnosis of Asperger syndrome, high functional form of autism.
"I felt that great sadness," he said. "I felt a sense of fear and anger."
Finally, the reception was accepted. She did not have a full day job, but AANE volunteers advised other women.
35-year-old Kama can help her early if her autism is detected in her childhood. He could graduate and become a writer. But that is even more.
"I had to be selfish," said Cayman. "I'm not afraid of the world, I'm not alone. I felt defective.
Depression and anxiety are often accompanied by people with ASD, but experts have found that depression among women who began in adolescence is particularly common. Food disorders are also common. Stress relief, as well as emotional or sexual victimization.
"It's a big issue because it's difficult to see motives and deep emotions from other people on the women's spectrum," says Anthony Rostain, a psychiatry professor at Penn Medicine and an adult development analyst. "When they feel happiness, they often take advantage of it, and sometimes even more violent or violent."
Jessica Brown, 36, in West Philadelphia, was 30 years old before diagnosis. At that time, he recalled that he was a writer who tried to do what he did not want to do. He said, "Oh, it's about your autism," he says.
But he always felt like a stranger. She grew up in a black, middle class family in West Chester, near the suburbs, and she was often surprised.
As a girl who does not understand the social features of the neurotic world, the liver is said to have been described very well. The college graduated with honors, but it prevented the job from retaining jobs due to social errors, not the performance.
She now works with children with special needs. It finds joy in reaching other people, like a small child, for example, called "Jessica". Hello. «
Brown is learning his abilities.
"You can read really good emotions," he said. "I am not in good social sphere, but I really can encourage my children. Let me tell you that I love them. «
Self-awareness also helped Lowther.
Like many autistic people, he considers social media as a blessing: "I join the groups that I like and I can say these things without being called a frontline."
Out-of-school programs for children bringing up children are not enough, says Lauter, so they find their adventure. Sometimes he goes erotic, "he said. "So I started acting as a dinosaur. The 40-year-old woman has something to do with a dinosaur run "near Morestown".
Sometimes he still flips his headphones: "Some will feel in my bones," says Lower. Adults are still irritated by behavior, but at least they know why.
"To be honest, my son and I know that we are on a trip," says Lowter. "He goes to therapy to help with the behavior and speech, and I think I'm helping them because I can handle them.
"Perhaps most people will never be" normal ", but they do not look like they love them. I have a husband and a son, and I find my joy. I'm never alone in my fantasies. It is always something to do. "
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